Alexis Victoria Calfee, 18, of Bennet, Nebraska, was born in Lincoln, Nebraska on October 6, 1992 and passed away on Friday, September 9, 2011 outside of Emerson, Nebraska. Alexis was a sophomore at Wayne State College studying Elementary Education. She was a graduate of 2010 from Palmyra High School in Palmyra, Nebraska. Alexis was an all around beautiful person, she had an infectious smile and was loved by everyone who met her. She was a blessing in disguise and was an idol to many people. There are not enough words to describe how amazing this young woman was. Alexis made an impact on literally everybody she encountered. She was the rock that kept many people together, especially her family. Alexis enjoyed boating, snowboarding, and just hanging out with the people she loved. In high school Alexis was involved in volleyball, fast-pitch softball, and track. She was also involved in D.A.R.E, P.A.R.T.Y, Student Council, FFA, FCA, National Honor Society, Spanish National Honor Society and attended Nebraska’s Girls State. She was crowned Homecoming Queen and was an American Homecoming Queen nominee. Alexis also spent time with children at St. Judes Research Hospital in Memphis, TN. Alexis was the captain of her volleyball team her junior and senior year at Palmyra High School. After high school, she continued her sporting career with the Wayne State Track & Field team and also played shortstop on the Lady Palmyra Panther Softball team. Alexis was also a member of the Rimington Trophy Committee which raises money for Cystic Fibrosis.
Survivors include her mother and father, Todd and Jaimi (Hahn) Calfee, brother, Drey Calfee, sister, Moriah Calfee (Bennet), best friend Brooke Rubenthaler, grandparents Randall and Deborah Calfee, Wayne Hahn and Sharon Bartak, aunts and uncles, Douglas and Karen Hahn (all of Lincoln), David and Lisa Hahn (Cedar Rapids, IA), Bruce and Kelly Evans (Roca), Lisa and Randy Olsen (Lincoln), Christopher and Karla Hahn (Lone Tree, CO). Cousins, Cody and Ashley Calfee, Dakota Moody (all of Lincoln), Samantha and Skylar Evans (Roca), Delaney Hahn (Lone Tree, CO), and many, many, many special friends from New York to Nebraska. She was preceded in death by grandparents, William J. and Mildred Calfee, Clinton and Hazel Tumblin, Reinhold and Elsa Hahn, Rudy and Esther Bartak.
Visitation will be held on Wednesday, September 14, 2011 from noon until 9:00 P.M. with family present from 6:00 P.M. to 9:00 P.M. at Wyuka Funeral Home. Visitation will continue at the church on Thursday from 10:00 A.M. until 11:30 A.M.
The funeral service will be held on Thursday, September 15, 2011 at 12:00 P.M. (noon) at the Berean Church, 6400 S. 70th Street, Lincoln.
Burial will be in Fairview Cemetery.
Todd, Jaimi, Drey and Moriah,
We are so sorry. Alexis was such a beautiful angel and a very special part of our life. She has such a kind heart and was a beautiful person inside and out. We were thankful that she was part of our wedding. We will never forget how special she was to our family and everyone around her. We love you and are praying for you. Greg, Kerri and Quinn Kelley
Todd, Jaimi, Drey & Mo words cannot heal your pain and I cannot imagine the magnitude of the loss you are all feeling, just trust in how truly amazing Lex was & know God needed her for a greater purpose. There is no doubt she is dancing, smiling & just laughing in heaven and will be waiting to be reunited with you again someday. All our love Curtis & Becky Bremer family.
Todd:
So sorry. I can’t imagine and my wife Lisa and I have been praying for you and your family.
Monte
Words cannot express my sorrow upon hearing about Alexis. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tami
I knew Alexis when she attended Bryan/Madonna Childcare Center. She was such a sweet and loving child.I remember she always loved me to play ball with her on the playground. We would bounce the ball up high and see who would be the first to catch it! Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
Please accept our deepest sympathy. Alexis did more in her short life than many do in a long life. God bless your family as you struggle to learn to live without her blessing to you here on earth.
Todd,Randy and Family,
I am deeply sorry to hear of the tragic news, there is no words to describe the loss, or the reasons as the why this happens to someone so young,Cherish all the times you had with her, she will be with you forever.
My deepest condolences to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
To the Calfee Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow I feel for your loss. Lexi was an exceptional young woman, she excelled at everything she did. Her smile and positive attitude touched everyone she encountered. My heart breaks for your loss and pain. You are in my thoughts and heart. Hold on to each other tight. I pray you find peace.
Todd, I’m so so sorry for you, your family and the rest of the world’s loss. My family is keeping you and yours in our thoughts and prayers. Try to hang in there and please let me know if there’s anything we can do to help in any way. I miss you buddy and am totally crushed by this horrible news. I regret never meeting your wonderful angel.
Alexis was a “precious” young lady. What a great role model! She will be sorely missed. Praise the Lord that she knew Christ as her personal Savior. I only hope that those attending the services will listen closely to the message and realize that they need Christ also. Our prayers are with all of her family.
Jaimi & Todd,
Mike and I are so sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss. While Alexis’ life was cut short, we hope you find some peace in the memories you were able to create with the time you had.
You are in our thoughts.
Melissa & Mike Ripley
God bless your family as you deal with this incredible loss. As a staff member at Wayne State College, I never met Alexis, yet I am so saddened by your loss. We have you in our thoughts and prayers. Jeannette Barry
We are so sorry to hear of the death of Alexis. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. May the memories you have and Gods gentle hand help you through the tough times ahead.
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of deep sorrow. Having such a sweet, compassionate child is truly a gift. Knowing that she is dearly loved translates to understanding just how much she will be missed. I am so sorry.
Our thoughts and Prayers go out to you. May God’s loving arms comfort you during this difficult time. Kevin and Anita Pollard Beatrice, NE
Todd & Jaimi, I cannot comprehend what you are going through. Heaven is a sweet place and you will see her beautiful smile again when we all go home. I am so sorry.
What a beautiful young woman. You should be very proud of all of her accomplishments. I am so sorry for your loss. God has bigger plans for her in heaven. Prayers go out to all of you during this difficult time.
God Bless your family. Our hearts go out to you. Hopefully you will find comfort knowing that Alexis was deeply loved and will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers for all of you! The Powell Family
Jaimi,
I heard about your beautiful daughters death through a mutual friend of Kelli. I cannot imagine what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family.
Todd, Jaimi, Drey, & Mo – I am crushed by the loss of your beautiful angel, her sense of humor and zest for life is and was unrivaled, to know her was to love her. I am praying for the day that memories of her smile will bring smiles and not tears.
Love,
Amy, Arien, and boys
Jaimi and Todd,
May God give you and your family the strength to deal with this devastating loss. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
It is impossible to put into words how much my heart breaks for your family. Your daughter was a beautiful gift from God, I imagine needed
her in some way. She is an angel. God bless you and your entire family and may you draw strength upon your friends during this incredibly difficult time. I’m thinking of you all and praying for your souls to be soothed.
You are all in my thoughts. I cannot remember a day when Alexis didn’t smile, laugh, and support everyone around her. Her humor and creativity were contagious and I will miss this a great deal. She was a special young woman that will always be in my thoughts.
God’s blessings, strength and comfort for your family during this difficult time. You have our deepest sympathy and our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God give you the strength you need.
Todd,Jamie and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your daughter! You will be in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time! If you need anything, we are here for you!
Bill and Shelly
I worked with Alexis this summer at the YMCA. I’m so glad that I had the opportunity to get to know her. She was so good with kids and I enjoyed being around her. A beautiful person inside and out. I’m praying for you all. May the Lord be your strength and comfort.
Calfee Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Lexi was a beautiful girl inside and out and deeply loved by all. In my time of sadness I found some comfort in these words: Unable are the loved to die. For love is immortality.~Emily Dickinson. Your family are in our thoughts and prayers.~Amanda Koenig and Family
Todd and Jamie, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Know that God will take care of her and bring you all together again one day.
Calfee & Hahn families, words cannot express the pain that I feel for you! Please know that I’m praying for you. I am so sorry for your loss. May God bless you & give you strength to heal.
DeAnn (Murkle) Brogan
Lexi had such a beautiful smile. It was so contagious. It is hard not to smile and feel love when you think of her. I saw a colorful butterfly tonight and immediately I thought of her. She will be missed but never forgotten. Our prayers go out to your family in hopes that time and your memories will find you comfort. God Bless.
Todd, you and I went to high school together and my Dad, Gary went to school with your dad. No words can express how sorry our families are for your loss. Remember all the good memories and how many lives Alexis touched in her short time here.Our sincere prayers are with you and your family.
Calfee Family,
Words cannot explain my sympathy for you. Lexi was an amazing women and I know how much love your family had given her. You are truly an admirable family and I know Lexi loved every day she had with you. I pray the lord gives you strength to get through this difficult time. You are all in my prayers.
Love you Todd and Jamie!!
Todd, Jaimi and family,
Words can not express my deepest sympathy as you endure the loss of your beautiful daughter. My prayers are that God will provide you with the peace that is beyond understanding, comfort your hearts today, and bless you with endearing memories that your hearts will always treasure.
Please accept my deepest sympathy. I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and all your family. Please reflect of the wonderfull memories and the time when you will re-unite with her. May God give you strength and peace at this time.
We are so sorry for your loss! Lexi was always so full of life and loved by everyone! She will be missed by all! Your family are in our thoughts and prayers! God Bless you all! The Vaughn Family
Todd and Jamie,
I’am so very sorry to hear about your loss of Alexis. I know how hard it is with such a tragic loss, but you need to stay strong for each other and you family. My heart ache’s for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tony Cech
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts ache for you. We have been and will continue to pray for you all.
With deepest sympathy,
Corey, Joy, Dylan, Delanie and Darrent Roeder
Randy and Debbie I am so sorry about Alexis. You have been in my prayers. She did so many wonderful things with her life. Your family has always been very special to me. May God be with you in this difficult time.
Calfee Family-
All of us at Willow Lake are thinking of you in your time of need. We are so very sorry for your loss.
Scott, Byron, Connie, Pearl, Mike, and Gary
Dear Calfee Family ~
I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds as though Alexis was an unbelievable blessing to her friends, family and everyone with whom she came in contact. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you, especially my friend, her Grandmother Sharon.
Anne Owens
Todd, Jaimi, Drey & Mo,
I can’t begin to tell you how sorry we are for you. Lexi was an amazing girl that brought smiles to everybody she touched. There are so many great memories over the years with her. She was like a daughter and sister to us. Please let us know if you need anything.
Keith, Krista, Brooke & Ashley
Todd, Jaimi, Drey, and Mo – I can’t find the words to express my shock and sadness for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers! With great sympathy, Bettina
God bless you and your family. Your friends and family are in our thoughts and prayers. Alexis sounded like a beautiful person.
The outpouring of love expressed for your beautiful daughter is heartwarming and is a true testament to how amazing Alexis was. I will pray you find some comfort in knowing how much of an impact she had on others. Take care of each other~
Todd, Jaimi, Drey, & Moriah,
May the beautiful memories shared of your beloved daughter and sister keep your hearts warm throughout all the days of your lives. Peace be with you.
In life, Jesus holds our hand and walks with us throughout our journey of faith. In death, His grip lifts us up into His very presence so that we can walk with Him forever, face to face.
Calfee family,
Our hearts are so heavy with the loss of Lexi. I know how very special she was to Zack and so many more people whom lives she touched. She will be greatly missed but always remembered as a precious angel whom now walks with her Savior hand in hand. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you. We will be praying for you all and for the healing that only God can bring.
Tracy (Zack’s mom)
God bless you all.She was such a wonderful girl. Take care of each other.
Ron Holman and Marilyn Carlson
Oh, Jaimi and Todd! My heart aches for you! No parent should ever have to endure the loss of a child. I know how much you love & share with your kids. I still remember Lexi at 10 years old…so cute, so “Miss Independent”…you have wonderful memories of time with Lexi. Hold them close and let them comfort you each day.
I am so sorry! My prayers are with you and the family. Know that even though I moved to Omaha, your a quick trip down the interstate …I’m there if you need me! ♥ to you and yours.
I only had Alexis for the one season, but I could tell that year what a close loving family you were. It was a joy having her on our team, and like you have said her smile was infectious. I just wished she would have played more with us and I would have gotten to know her better. I want you to know I am thinking of you and Alexis, and hope your faith and family will get you thru this hard time. Rest in peace Alexis
Jaimi, Todd, and family,
May you find the strength to get you through this time of tribulation. My thoughts and prayers are with you! God Bless~Mandy
To the Calfee Family,
I am the Head Athletic Trainer here at WSC and I just wanted to let you know that Lexi and your family are in my thoughts and prayers personally as well as in our department’s. I strongly believe that once someone is a Wildcat they are always a Wildcat and I know that Lexi (and Chris) will both be routing for their team from up above. I am extremely sorry for your loss.
Muffin along with the rest of the WSC Sports Medicine Staff
The counseling staff at Wayne State College send condolences to Lexi’s family and friends at this most difficult time.
My heart goes out to your family during this tragedy of such a young, pretty lady. I don’t personally know you but my brother goes to Wayne State College and was friends with Alexis. God bless you and your family during this very difficult time.
Jaimi and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks just thinking of what you guys are going through. She was such a beautiful and bright girl. She will be missed by so many. My prayers are with you and your family.
Trishel (Bunko friend)
Our hearts are overcome with sadness, as we mourn the loss of Lexi who so many loved and admired. You are in our every thought during this time. Love, Ronnie, Tami, Dalton & Dallas
I am truly sorry for the huge loss to your family. I know, first hand, the grief you feel, and I will continue to keep your whole family in my thoughts and prayers. I first got to know Moriah through teaching. But more recently, I was able to know Alexis through her work at the Y. She watched my kids in the child watch. She was always so nice, and my kids loved her. I have no doubt that she would have made a wonderful teacher!
Jaimi, Todd, Moriah, Drey, and the rest of your family will be in my prayers and thoughts. May God help you through this and leave a sense of peace in your hearts.
With love and prayers,
The Converse Family- Jeremy, Amanda, Jadyn, and Evan
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. What a lovely young woman you raised. I hope you can find some comfort in all the wonderful things she accomplished and the contributions she made to society.God Bless.
Jaimi, Todd, Drey and “Mo-Mo”,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I remember her as a child visiting her little sister, Mo-Mo at the Bryan daycare, she was a joy to behold. I hope that you find peace and comfort in knowing that she was loved and admired by so many and she will live on in our hearts. Jan, Steve and Joel Matzen
Todd and Jamie and family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Even though I only met Lexi a couple of times, she was always smiling and happy, and made those around her smile. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Amy, Taylor and Lauren
Todd, Jaimi, and Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Alexis’s passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours. Just like the rest of her family, she was blessed with a beautiful soul. She will be missed by many. May “Fatboy” be waiting for her at the gates of Heaven and take her under his wings.
Love,
Suz
Todd,
I’m sorry to hear about your tragic loss. You and your family are in my prayers and have my deepest sympathy.
Todd & Jaimi,
We are so saddened to hear of Lexi’s passing. May God be with you and your family.
Tod & Jessica Masin
We are so very sorry for your loss. Your family has been in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.
With deepest sympathy,
Nick, Vicki, Heather, and Alyssa
Todd, Jaimi, Drey & Mo —
Our thoughts and prayers are with you always as you walk through the darkest time. What a beautiful girl you raised and grew up with. May you find peace and joy in those memories of your lives together. Her smile will always be in your heart!
Love you guys –
Tony & Dee Felici
I did not know your daughter but I am a South Sioux City Nebraska native. I am so sorry for your loss. She is a very beautiful girl. Heaven is now filled with one more angel. I wish you all peace as you find your way.
To Calfee Family,
Words can not express our sympathy for your lost. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God bless your family.
Chuck,Donna,Ryan and Sherri Burr
I’m so sorry for your loss. I knew Alexis by her infectious smile and her love for life. I wish there was something I could do to help ease your pain. If you ever need anything I can do let me know.
Todd, Jaimi, Debbie, Randy, and Lisa,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers. What I remember best about Lexi is her smile. I see from her photo that she didn’t lose that. I am at a loss for words, but prayer is powerful. Know that it is pouring forth during this time and beyond.
Todd & Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. –Capital Tower & Communications
Todd, Jaimi, Moriah, and Drey,
I am so very sorry for your loss. I want you to know that I am thinking of your family at this time. I loved having Lexi in my toddler room as well as Moriah in my Preschool. I will always remember Lexi and the fun we had. She was an amazing child and grew up to be an amazing woman. I will always remember her, Moriah and your family. I will always keep a part of Lexi in my heart and will always treasure the toddler years I had with her.
Take care, Kris Burress
Randy and Deb,
Our deepest sympathy goes to you and your family at the loss of your beautiful granddaughter. May your wonderful memories of her help to ease the pain. We hold you in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. God be with you!!
Ron and Donelle
Todd, I’m so so sorry for you and your family. Our family is keeping yours in our thoughts and prayers.
Calfee Family
Your are in my thoughts and prayers. Alexis was such an amazing girl. And you are all amazing people just stay strong through this. God has a beautiful and amazing angel up there with him now.
Sincerely
Nick Smith
We are so sorry to hear of your loss…..You are in our prayers
So so so sorry for your loss! Life seems so unfair at times like these. My heart is so heavy right now. I think of you guys so often! Sending love, hugs, and prayers your way. Stay strong and take care of each other! Love ya, Jessica Eskins
To all the Calfees. My heart goes out to all of you.Such an overwhelming loss. Debbie and Randy, as a grandparent myself I can’t imagine the hurt and pain you must feel. At times such as this only the thought of Jesus keeping Alexis safe until you see her again can comfort. My prayers are with you. Bob
I do not know you or your daughter but am from Wakefield Nebraska and and a mother also. I feel for you and your loss and can not imagine what you and your family our going through. I have heard about her from a mutual friend and sounds like she was a SUPER person. God has a a special angel in heaven with him now. I know we do not understand why but some day we will and you will be in my prayers and thoughts each day. God Bless you and cherish the short time you had with her on earth.
God Bless you, Tammie Mogus
Vaughn & I will be praying that our Lord will wrap his loving arms around your family and give you the strength and courage to face the days to come. Alexis is in the presence of the Lord, safe and sound in her permanent home. Praise God you have the assurance that you will all be reunited someday.
Jaimi, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved daughter. My heart goes out to your whole family. I’ll keep you all in my prayers. Karen Rock
Randy and Deb, we are so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful Granddaughter.Our hearts go out to you and your family. May God comfort you and help your family in you days to come. We did not know Alexis but just hearing you talk about her when we were camping we knew how precious she was. With sympathy and love.
Todd and The Calfee Family, I wish you all the deepest of sympathy and you are in my thoughts and prayers. Todd, Take care,you were always a good friend back in Mickle and Northeast days.
God Bless, Jerry Schilke
I wanted to offer condolences for this beautiful young woman.I did not know her.I only wish to say may God Bless her Soul,May the angels meet her at the gates.I am so sorry for your loss..
We will really miss Lexi with her beautiful smile that never shut off! We will always miss watching her play softball and volleyball! God Bless Love Brad,Garnet and Jami